How do you get your ex back if he has a new gf and you and him were together for 3 years almost and she and him only been together for about a week or two? How do you get him to come back to you?

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8 Responses to “How do you get your ex back even if he has a new gf?”

  • Avalicious says:

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  • ▌Gunny ▌ says:

    lose the weight you gained that drove him away
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  • Mr. Awesome says:

    The obvious answer to this would be – by a gun.

    You failed to mention us why did you break up after 3 years, how’s he like, is he a man of integrity, why did he break it up? was it the new girl? What was going on in those 3 years, how serious were you two..

    Why do people think there’s some magical equation that solves ALL the issues in the same way.
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  • BeckaaBoo<3 says:

    This all depends on how you split up. Who dumped who?
    If you dumped him then there might be a chance that he wants you back.
    If he dumped you there was a reason for that. Don’t try to ruin his relationship with his new girlf ’cause thats just cruel – ’cause although you may not like to hear this – he might really like her.
    Tell him that you still have feelings for him. Thats all you can do without ruining their relationship.
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  • Principessa says:

    You dont. You feel the pain and you get through it. Not over it, some relationships you never get over, but you do get through them. He is done with you for the moment, and the next move is in his corner if he wants you back in his life the best thing to do is to stand still. If he loved you and misses you he will want you back, otherwise he will move on and you should too. Don’t waste your time over some boy who is currently hurting you by being with someone else. Be good to yourself and forget what wasn’t meant to be and be busy.
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  • Rin says:

    Really, there is a lot to consider.

    He broke up with you, and soon found someone else to live his life with. That totally means he completely disregards you! You don’t need an unreliable guy like that in your life.

    However, if you and him were together for that long, I can understand how upset you must feel over this situation. But I wonder – did he have legit reasons to break up with you? How quickly did he get with this other girl after the break up?

    If you know for sure that he is the one and you are willing to sacrifice your time and effort over him, the only way to make him want you back is to act like you don’t care. Normally, we want the things we don’t or can’t have. So perhaps to him, he doesn’t want you because he knows he already "owns" you, to some degree. Perhaps he lost interest in you after claiming you.

    Don’t let him play that game. Show him who’s boss. Act like you don’t care about him, and you’ve moved on. Let him know that he isn’t the only thing that you revolve around. Live your life, express your passions in life, have fun with friends, meet new people, be open to new opportunities. If he’s pathetic enough to see what he’s missing, he’ll definitely want to rethink his mistake and want you back.

    However, if you two fought often, or he simply lost too much interest, then perhaps breaking up seemed like the right thing to do. Two incompatible people put together aren’t 1 and 1 making 2, it’s just asking for unnecessary strife. It’s normal to meet a major someone, then break up if things don’t work out in the end. It’s healthy to discover what kind of person you are most compatible with. You move on, and meet someone new, hoping that he is finally Mr. Right.

    Good luck!
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  • Kat says:

    Sorry to hear about your situation. :( It’s bad enough that you are broken up, but it probably feels worst now that he’s with someone else.

    It won’t be easy for him to forget about what you two had.

    If he’s on the rebound, it likely won’t work out with this new person.

    What I would recommend is rather than contacting him, I would ‘disappear’.

    The more he thinks you are sitting on idle waiting for him, the slower he will come back, if at all.

    How you gain his interest again is if he sees you happy, with or without him.

    Try moving on and if he wants to come back, he has to earn his way back.

    Good luck!
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  • smonty says:

    That’s a great question too and a hard one to answer really. However, there are many ways to get your ex back; it just takes patience and perseverance and doing the right way so you don’t look like a stalker or just a desperate person. You have to be very casual about it and not look like your not happy with the situation at all. Be happy and just be that person friend at best as you work yourself back into their lives again and prove to them that you were the best for them. There is a lot of stuff on the internet too that can help. I find that videos help the most and can teach a person how to deal with this situation. Good Luck and hope you find your peace.
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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ci_WrhHe_mE

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