I will make this long story short.
-He broke up with me on text
-We got back together
-I dumped him on text becuase everyone said thats what he deserves but his bff told me he wanted a BJ or a HJ and i didnt know what to do so i dumped him
-i went out with his friend because he says he didnt care who i date
-Last night his friend dumped me on text but the SAME night my ex with the bff says that the ex still loves me. But this was before the break up.
- now im really scared because i have had my heart broken so many times and i dont know what to do.. im seriously considering suicide..
First of all, it sounds to me that you really need to set your standards straight. You need a guy who will be man enough to at least break up with you to your face. Not over text. You also need a guy that wont expect a BJ or a HJ from you. Set your standards high for a true gentleman. A guy who wont expect those types of things from you. You will live a happier life with those types of guys.
Second of all, I believe that if you and your ex broke up once, it means it didn’t work out for a reason. And that it wont work out the second time. Don’t go back out with him. He doesn’t deserve you. Respect yourself more, have more confidence. I’m sure you’re a beautiful, intelligent, sweet girl who deserves better than the guys you have listed here. Be smart about guys you choose.
Best of luck,
Emily.
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Don’t hurt yourself over relationship drama. Love sucks but it will get better once you find who you are meant to be with. Now, i don’t think you should go back out with him unless you truly feel confident in the relationship if you don’t then you are putting yourself up for getting hurt either by yourself or him. Just stay single for awhile and enjoy it. I know its hard, but it will help.
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First of all, it sounds to me that you really need to set your standards straight. You need a guy who will be man enough to at least break up with you to your face. Not over text. You also need a guy that wont expect a BJ or a HJ from you. Set your standards high for a true gentleman. A guy who wont expect those types of things from you. You will live a happier life with those types of guys.
Second of all, I believe that if you and your ex broke up once, it means it didn’t work out for a reason. And that it wont work out the second time. Don’t go back out with him. He doesn’t deserve you. Respect yourself more, have more confidence. I’m sure you’re a beautiful, intelligent, sweet girl who deserves better than the guys you have listed here. Be smart about guys you choose.
Best of luck,
Emily.
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Myself.
Good for you for not letting him pressure you into doing anything sexual. I think you should hold out for a guy who won’t bring so much drama into your life. You deserve better!
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