cut along story short we were together for 2 and a half years..and she would always say she loves me etc…and even talked of a family etc…when she split from me she said i know it sounds sad jeff but i can see myself marrying you when im older….and she even said to one of her best mates that when she is ready to settle Down i would be the one she wants…im 20 she is 18 im her first love..and relationship…does anybody no wats going on?
She’s scared to settle down. She is only 18, & wants to experience life before marriage. She doesn’t want to regret anything later down the line or blame you for her lack of experiences in life. I wouldn’t put my whole life on hold for her though. Have your own experiences, & if life brings you two back together, then it was meant to be.
If she really can’t see you guys together maybe its meant to be man
If everyone could help me out by answering my question on my profile. I’m stuck between 2 girls & I would like if guys could check em out & give me some feedback
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i think she is playing games
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She’s scared to settle down. She is only 18, & wants to experience life before marriage. She doesn’t want to regret anything later down the line or blame you for her lack of experiences in life. I wouldn’t put my whole life on hold for her though. Have your own experiences, & if life brings you two back together, then it was meant to be.
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You want her to jib her boyfriend for you? Easy. Just remind her of all the good times you had together. Theres nothing stronger than memories (and friends). If you can get her to recolate the memories you had together then she’ll start thinking ‘why did i finish this guy again’. You need to make her laugh, make her realise that you were good together, that you had some great times. If you do this then i have no doubt you’d win her. If it doesn’t work, then she must really like her boyfriend and there’s nothing you can do about it.
Good luck getting your girl
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Get over it and move on… you will find love, stronger and kinder love elsewhere AND you will go in with your eyes open. Take a risk, forget the past… she wasn’t THAT good after all.
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My own experience.
i am in the same situation right now. But we are both dating other people at the moment, its one of those things where you have that bond of being the first relationship. You probably will end up together but at the moment you just need to live your life and date other people and see where you both end up. Look at it as being like Ross and Rachel from Friends, if its meant to be you will both find your way back to eachother.
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im doing it now!
Your case reminded me of a friend of mine…I can truly understand your plight. My "boy friend" was also in your shoes when he break up with his girlfriend of 3 years. He regretted it deeply and he simply cannot forget her. I told him that if he still loves her, then he must do all he can to win her back..
An effective tip on how to win back an ex girlfriend is to take good care of yourself. Of course, you are sad and desperate, but this is not an excuse for you to appear haggard. Go for a new haircut and indulge in a good relaxing massage. You need to relax your mind and body to give you the strength to win back your ex girlfriend.
Now comes the big step that you should take to win her back. Once you have given each other enough time alone, you can meet her up and let her know about your intention to get back to her. Remember to do this in a creative manner. For instance, if you do not have a habit of putting your thoughts on a love letter to him, now is the time for you to write a love letter to her and express how much she means to you. Nevertheless, if you do this, you have to be strong enough to accept any rejection from her side. You must remember that how you feel about the relationship is also how she feel the same about it. If she rejects you, then simply respect her decision.
However, this is not it! There are simply various proven ways to win a girl back…the following is the ONE TIP that i gave to my friend and he managed to win his girl back!
This final tip that I would like to share with you is to induce humor when trying to win a girl back. When I say humor, I meant that you can converse with her in a humorous way and make her laugh. Remember, time can heal anything but laughter can heal anything FASTER than ever! If you can make her laugh and give her the impression that she enjoys being with you, you are already on your way to winning her back to you again.
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I wish you all the best!
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