How do you win your ex’s heart back subtly if they know you so well they know when you are attempting to when them back? And how can you do this on the phone if you don’t see your ex anymore? I know I could win him back if I had the money to go home and see him but I want to be able to do it over the phone.
Ok, here is an approach that works very well…
First of all, it’s ok if your ex knows you’re open to the idea of getting back together. The main thing is not to pressure him in any way. If you do, his natural reaction may be to pull away from you.
Give him a call and invite him to get together some time. No pressure, just a casual get together to do something you both enjoy. During your time out together, don’t talk about the relationship, how much you miss him, etc. Just have a good time, be really postitive and upbeat.
Don’t spend the whole day together. Just an hour or two tops. You be the one that ends the "date" early. Let him know you had a good time and maybe you can do it again sometime. Under no circumstances stay the night together, sleep together, etc.
The idea here is to allow him an opportunity to reconnect with the positive energy that attracted him to you when you guys first met.
There is an article I read that goes over this in more detail. I listed the source below… good luck!
I’m so sorry, I was in that position not long ago at all… but I live in the same city and all. There’s some e-books on the internet you can buy, it might help you. I would say wait a whole month without contacting them (yes, a whole month!) and then call them, and hey they might call you before then. Talk to them for 10 minutes or less, then say sorry you have to go out on the town with some friends (he’ll wonder what’s up, hmm?) and say you’ll call them some other day to hang out. good luck!!!
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also heartbroken, but forced to accept reality after 3.5 months =(
Ok, here is an approach that works very well…
First of all, it’s ok if your ex knows you’re open to the idea of getting back together. The main thing is not to pressure him in any way. If you do, his natural reaction may be to pull away from you.
Give him a call and invite him to get together some time. No pressure, just a casual get together to do something you both enjoy. During your time out together, don’t talk about the relationship, how much you miss him, etc. Just have a good time, be really postitive and upbeat.
Don’t spend the whole day together. Just an hour or two tops. You be the one that ends the "date" early. Let him know you had a good time and maybe you can do it again sometime. Under no circumstances stay the night together, sleep together, etc.
The idea here is to allow him an opportunity to reconnect with the positive energy that attracted him to you when you guys first met.
There is an article I read that goes over this in more detail. I listed the source below… good luck!
References :
http://ezinearticles.com/?Want-to-Know-How-to-Get-Your-Boyfriend-Back?-This-Will-Get-Him-Running-Back-to-You&id=1588977