So I really care about my ex-boyfriend. I can honestly say ive never felt this way about any guy I ever dated. Heres my story of what happened…
We are in college, He lives directly across the hall from me. He was in my room one night and texted me "wanna go get something to eat?" so i was like of course! He took me to this pizza place and put his arm around me and I new he was trying to kiss me but instead I said, wanna go back to the dorm? We did and that night he was talking to my suitemates and told them that he really liked me. We started hooking up that two weeks later he asked me out. three weeks later we broke up but continued hooking up until November 9.
Now, we were hooking up EVERY DAY from September to november. He made me feel like I was the only girl he was seeing because he told me he was crazy about me and he asked me…are you hooking up with other people? I told him of course not and then i asked him and he told me no. He took me out in public a couple times and we would always kiss and hold hands and kiss WHENEVER WE LEFT EACHOTHER
Now, i return to school one sunday and see hickeys all over his neck..i confront him and he laughs it off. I see photos on facebook of him making out with this girl from a club he met that night. I later find out that he had sex with her on that friday along with another girl the previous night. I then found out he hooked up with a couple people during the time we were hooking up.
I screamed at him…ive been devasted for almost one month and i cant stop thinking about him and it hurts because i feel like he doesnt give a shit about me anymore.
He told my friend that he genuinly liked me but now he just cant anymore.
I want him back…i never realized how depressed i would be that were not together.
Im transferring next semester and only have a few days left here and i want to tell him that i want to be with him.
How can i do this without sounding stupid. please help me =/
The guy is a loser. Spare yourself more heartache: Find someone better. It’s also already obvious to him that you’re easy to deceive and that likely appeals to him.
And if you think you really like someone, wait on the sex. It makes things much more complicated than they need to be. If he really cares about you, he’ll be okay with it. Sex is so much better with someone you truly *know* and respect and love, anyways.
The guy is a loser. Spare yourself more heartache: Find someone better. It’s also already obvious to him that you’re easy to deceive and that likely appeals to him.
And if you think you really like someone, wait on the sex. It makes things much more complicated than they need to be. If he really cares about you, he’ll be okay with it. Sex is so much better with someone you truly *know* and respect and love, anyways.
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