Relationship Makeup http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog The Ultimate Guide To Getting Back Together Thu, 02 Feb 2012 06:30:11 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 Is it possible to get my ex back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-my-ex-back-2 http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-my-ex-back-2#comments Thu, 02 Feb 2012 06:30:11 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-my-ex-back-2 Hey guys look my ex is a Jehovah witness and is disfellowshipped yet we still continued to love each other when i was studying to be one too. One day we had unprotected sex, and I thought she was pregnant, but later on she proved to be okay. My mother found out, and snitched to her mom and this caused an explosion, and as you can guess she really looked at herself, and decided its time to get back in my church which meant cutting all communication with me. I loved this girl so much, and it was so difficult to let her go, because we been doing things incorrectly so long. So that caused me to pester her with love emails when i wasn’t supposed to have communication with her. Eventually this caused her to get annoyed, and angry, and flat out told me to back off. I did just that. After 5 days or so I couldn’t help it, but my college was approaching finals so i wished her luck on her test. Then she tells me their is this girl texting her asking if she can get with me. This was clearly my ex trying to play me, but idk if this was a test or just to mess with me. To make the long story short I got back home from work and she tells me this girl tells that this anonymous woman told her that me and her touch each other and flirt with this women, and you even think we going to get back together you got another thing coming. So this was a big lie, and I approached her mom to help me in my time of need and help maybe prove to her daughter that this is a lie, or see how much of a lair her daughter is. But she blew up threatening to put a restraining order on me, and how she glad her daughter isn’t with me anymore yelling at me in front of her customers. Since then i began to work on my relationship with god, and make myself a stronger christian. I really turned around, and want to get baptized maybe a year or 2 from now. But not a day goes by when I don’t pray for my ex, for I loved her with all my heart, and believe so did she. I was working really hard for a promise ring for her, she wanted to marry me, and we talked about what are kids names are going to be. We were heavily in love with each other, I cooked for her, bought her gifts out of nowhere just to show how much I loved her, and I treated her like a princess. I want give it a lot of time, but I’m sure she thinks of me from time to time. I ask what is the chances that someday we might get back together?

I would say the chances are slim

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-my-ex-back-2/feed 3 How To Get My Ex Back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-to-get-my-ex-back-17 http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-to-get-my-ex-back-17#comments Sat, 28 Jan 2012 04:59:18 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-to-get-my-ex-back-17 Hey Guys, so I know I’ve already told people that I really truly love my ex and when I first met him I instantly fell for him. I made a lot of mistakes when we broke up by calling, texting, begging, apologizing, asking what went wrong, and I could never say the right thing even when we weren’t arguing (we work together) ..I think I acted like this because three weeks after we broke up I miscarried and it got worse and I was scared and I did tell him and he didnt say much and I was still so determined to fix everything but really I seemed crazy. Im not, it’s just sometimes hard for someone to see how much they love you and often the other person mistakes it for crazy and rightfully so I understand. I really want to get back together with my ex and I was hoping if you guys had any positive ideas or suggestions/stories on how to do so? I don’t need any negative feedback because I really want to work this out and I don’t want to move on with someone who I feel is my true love and someone I really care for and I knew he felt the same at one point. Im 19 btw and I knw thats young but whatever lol and we broke up because I picked too many arguments and we "grew apart". Thanks guys, I really appreciate your help! :)

Get Your Lover Back Tips – Advice On How Get Your Ex Back
Wow, going through a breakup sucks, and it’s so hard to know what to do. You know that if you do the wrong thing, or don’t do anything at all, it will be pretty much impossible to get back with your ex. But what should you do? What are the right steps to take? Here are some proven get your lover back tips advice how get your ex back that have worked for thousands. Some you may have heard of, some not. But if you’re willing to pay attention and follow these steps you’ll have an above average chance of having your ex back with you.

As I said, this method has worked for many, many people and it can work for you too. That doesn’t mean it will happen overnight or that it will be easy. If you want success you have to be willing to make some changes in the person that you are. Don’t worry, these changes will actually make you a better human being which will benefit you in all aspects of your life, not just with your ex. Some of these steps may seem odd or unnecessary, but they’re not so don’t skip any.

OK, here are the steps you need to follow starting right now:

1. Don’t contact your ex in any way. They have to have time to miss you and face life without you in it. If you keep contacting them there will be no fear that they’ve lost you. Without that fear they can take their own sweet time figuring out what is best for them. You really don’t want to be their ‘plan b’. Give them space.

2. What did you do wrong? I’m not saying that the relationship falling apart was all your fault, but you probably had something to do with the problems. What mistakes did you make? What maturity issues do you need to work on? Whatever it was, pick the top 2 or 3 personality traits that you want to concentrate on and then make some serious changes in the way you act and the way you treat other people. This has to be something you are totally committed to or it won’t work. This will also take time so don’t expect a quick fix and don’t talk to your ex during this stage. Don’t worry, more than likely they’ll get wind of this through some of your mutual friends.

3. Get yourself in shape physically. Whether or not you are in good shape or not, it’s likely that things have gone downhill somewhat during your breakup. Now is the time to get back to where you used to be, or where you should be. Join a gym and commit to working out several times a week. This will help you get back in shape, minimize the negative effects of stress, and look really hot when it is time to see your ex!

4. Spend a lot of time having fun. I know that at a time like this, this advice may sound ridiculous, but if you try to get out of your house and spend time doing things you enjoy doing, you may actually be able to forget about your pain for a little while at least. Just don’t go out with someone on a date. That is the best way to make sure your ex never gets back with you. Hang out with friends and family only.

5. Contact your ex. Let them know you’ve missed them since you’ve been apart, but keep things light, don’t come on too strong. Ask them if they’d like to go out for lunch or coffee, again, keep it casual, and catch up with each other. If they say yes, this is your time to shine. Let them see all the great, positive changes you’ve made in your physical appearance as well as your personality. If you take things easy and just be yourself, you may be surprised to find them asking you to take them back!

Follow these get your lover back tips advice how get your ex back, they’ve worked for lots of people and if you follow them, they can help you too.

Good luck
Lots of Useful advice on that website

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-to-get-my-ex-back-17/feed 3 I need helping getting my ex girlfriend back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/i-need-helping-getting-my-ex-girlfriend-back http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/i-need-helping-getting-my-ex-girlfriend-back#comments Mon, 23 Jan 2012 07:27:24 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/i-need-helping-getting-my-ex-girlfriend-back How can i get my ex back? I love her too much too loose her. We were dating for 2 years and the break up was both of our faults. Does anyone know how i can get her back?

Jamie here is a great website with sound advice and no ads
When you initially break up with someone you can feel a lot of different emotions but you don’t usually wonder how to win ex back until some time has passed. When you realize that the person who shared your life was the one you wanted. You may have broken up because you felt you were missing out on something.

We can all suffer from something known as the grass being greener. This is where we think other people have a better lifestyle and we are missing out. We can take the people we love for granted and decide for whatever reason that there is someone better out there who will make a more perfect partner.

But the single life is not that attractive and after a while we start to wonder how to win ex back. Thankfully it is not that difficult once you know what you are doing and don’t make any stupid mistakes. Too often we think that just because we are missing our ex partners, they are missing us too. We decide that a bunch of flowers and a nice meal is all that is needed to sort it out. But this is real life and not the movies and it will often take a lot more than this to end up back together.

Love is such a powerful emotion. It can cause huge happiness but it can also cause a lot of sadness. When someone trusts you with their love, they expect to be treated with respect. They do not expect you to betray them or hurt them. Even if you have not had an affair, the very fact you broke up will have hurt the other person. It will have dented their confidence and their belief in themselves as well as your relationship.

http://igetexback.org/how-do-i-win-ex-back-advice-that-works/

I hope it helps you.

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/i-need-helping-getting-my-ex-girlfriend-back/feed 4 How do i get my ex-girlfriend back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3 http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3#comments Sat, 21 Jan 2012 00:09:36 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3 I dated my ex for almost 2 years and we broke up because we fought to much (and maybe i was a little stubborn) but it was mostly mutual. After about a week I realized how much i missed her and that I really wanted her back but when trying to talk to her about it she kept saying that she couldnt go through it again and eventually I gave up. 4 months later (last week) she texted me randomly and started to talk to me and said she misses some of the things we used to do and we talked for a while having alot of fun and I realized I still have feelings for her. When I asked her if she wanted to go to a movie or dinner sometime she said that she doesnt feel comfortable doing that. I then asked her why and she said because she cant forget some of the things that we both said when fighting and then told me she had to go to sleep… I do still miss her and i know what i did wrong when we went out before. wondering if theres anything i can do?

Hey, whether you’re trying to get your ex back, mend a relationship or get over a broken heart, it’s important that you make the decision which actually works. I followed the advice in the articles on the website listed below my answer. Have a read of the articles and best of luck in whatever you decide to do.

Here’s the site by the way: http://www.mendarelationship.com

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Let her heal. That’s the best way.

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-your-ex-back/how-can-you-get-back-your-ex-when-she-told-you-to-stop-texting-her/feed 6 How to get an ex back..? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/how-to-get-an-ex-back-2 http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/how-to-get-an-ex-back-2#comments Mon, 09 Jan 2012 06:24:20 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/how-to-get-an-ex-back-2 My ex boyfriend & I were going out for 2 years & 8 months. The other day he told me that he doesn’t feel the same way for me anymore & broke up with me. I know this sounds very desperate but I was reading online that there are some books that have psychological tricks to make your ex want you back. I was wondering if anyone has ever read any of the "how to get your ex back" books & what do they say to do..? I do realize how crazy this sounds but I have never met a man like him before & I just want to have another chance to show him that we truly are meant to be together. A few things I think you should know before posting a reply is that our relationship became very complicated when we his mother moved in with us. She started to not like me & openly expressed her opinions in front of him & me. I feel like he’s been very stressed from feeling stuck in between us for awhile & eventually just broke it off. Although he says it has nothing to do with her in my heart I feel some part of it does. I still live in the apartment for now until I can get my name taken off of the lease. Everyday I feel more confused because I’m not sure how to read his emotions. Just yesterday I came home from hanging out with a friend & he tried to kiss me as soon as I walked in the door. I’m not asking for consolation or posts telling me to "just get over it". I am asking for real advice on getting my ex back. Please help!

I know how dire your situation is, as I was in it not too long ago. That said I’m going to cut right to the chase. You need to act fast. I wrote a personal blog on my story and I really think it can help you.

Best of luck

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/how-to-get-an-ex-back-2/feed 4 How to get your ex to want you back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/how-to-get-your-ex-to-want-you-back http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/how-to-get-your-ex-to-want-you-back#comments Mon, 02 Jan 2012 02:34:33 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/how-to-get-your-ex-to-want-you-back Helpful tips to get your ex back? Ive begged ones but that didnt work out too well
Please help me.

You can’t make anyone want or love you.

They have to want and love you on their own.

If they don’t want and love you, then its time to realize that getting them back will only breed hatred and resentment.

Would you rather have tears of joy or tears of hatred? Would you rather have that person back in your life, only to realize they’re indifferent to you, and are using you?

You can try, but your best bet is to just leave that person alone. Sooner or later someone better who does want you and does love you will come into your life. That is the one that you focus on.

The ex is an ex. Second chances rarely succeed and a breakup the 2nd time is so much more painful.

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/how-to-get-your-ex-to-want-you-back/feed 6 If the ex and i get back together? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/if-the-ex-and-i-get-back-together http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/if-the-ex-and-i-get-back-together#comments Mon, 26 Dec 2011 03:51:14 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/if-the-ex-and-i-get-back-together Okay I was with this guy for almost three years. (My first love). Well two months back I broke up with him because I felt like I was always waiting for him. I went out had fun clubbed(I’m 19) met a ton of guys and slept with three. Well I realized I’ve lived the relationship life, I’ve lived the single life, and I’ve lived the broken hearted life. I realized I want my ex back, I know he wants to get back together also, but what started the whole breakup was we took a break over a year ago we were on a break and I met a guy he never let me forget it. I know he misses me, and I miss him too. He knows I’ve had sex(not how many times), he’s had sex also. So do you think it would all repeat if we got back together?

not if ur both more into each other than anyone else

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/to-get-ex-back/if-the-ex-and-i-get-back-together/feed 4 how can i get my ex back without begging him? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-without-begging-him http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-without-begging-him#comments Sat, 17 Dec 2011 06:24:25 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-without-begging-him So we went into a break up 8 months back. All these days I was begging him to getting back together. But this is not working. What are the proven ways to get my ex boyfriend back. I dunno why I still want him.

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-without-begging-him/feed 0 How do i get my ex back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-back-19 http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-back-19#comments Mon, 12 Dec 2011 07:16:36 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-back-19 me and my ex broke up a mnth and a half ago, but since we have sex everytime we hang out. we had an argument last week and said we couldnt have sex anymore cause shes talking to someone that we need to just be friends, but when we hang out and i try to just be friends, she starts flirting with me. last night i tried to hang out as just a friend and she started flirting and talking to me in a sexual way, so i started back. about half way through the night she said we cant be doing that anymore, but ive heard that about 8 times before and we end up going back to the same thing. she wanted me to take her to her friends house and i said why not just stay over and she goes "cause you know what will happen if i stay over". mind you her friend who shes talking to is her ex, she says she loves, cares about, and has feelings for both of us. where do i go from here to get her back for good
its just hard not to hang out with her, cause we have a genuinely good time together, and everyone sees it, everyone tells us theyve never seen such a perfect couple. she tells me shes still young (21) and just wants to get her life sorted out. that she wants to make sure there isnt a reason to not have her ex in her life before she can focus on us. which she tells me when they hang out they always end up in an argument about something and they tried things like 3 times before and never were together for more then 2 wks. and even their friendship ended twice before, but im the on she cant lose out of her life no matter what, ive tried to let her go and she wont let me, she always ends up finding me within a day. she even changed her number then messaged me on fb. and whenever we hang out she always brings up stuff weve done in our past. what do i do? stay friends but keep a safe distance?

I’ll give you some advice.

I went back to my ex. It brings back so many emotions it just tears you apart.
When you break up the second time it’s even worse then the first time because you really feel like there is no hope… especially when you loved that person with all your heart.

Moving on is the BEST thing you can do.
Being friends with my ex is hard… considering he has a new girlfriend.

You’ll find someone else.
Why chase after someone who only wants to be friends?

You’ll just have to accept it… sorry.

"Friends with benefits"… yeah, doesn’t always work out.

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