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ik you will think im totaally pathetic afeter you read this but….i am lost without my bf…well now ex bf but i need some way to get him back if at all possibal, (note: iv tried everything i can hink of.!) iv apologized ive told him things would be differrent iv told him i could make him happy….but its always a flat oout no D; i dont know what elese i can do adn to make things even more complictaed than they already are he has a new gf….i know this situation may b helpless. but can you think of anyhting i can do to make him relize we are ment for eachother.?
we were fine well…more than fine we were perfect.! i dont know what happened but one day he decided to move on and i totally fucked it upp by saying some pretty nasty things to him in return /: ive apolgized for what i did but that seems to mean nothing to him…what can i do to make him relize im soorry and ive changed and that i truely love him.?
please answere ASAP.!
please im lost and not quite sure what to do D;
~thanks.

Well first of all u did the totally wrong thing by apologizing and begging for him back. That just makes u sound desperate and will in turn make him run from u even more. When my bf broke up with me and then started dating someone else I freaked out and started begging and crying and telling him Im sorry and that things would change. He just started avoiding me even more. Then whenever I started acting like I was over him and feeling better and stopped harassing him, he actually started wanting me back. Its weird and annoying.

It honestly depends on every situation like why did u break up? How long have u been together? Does he actually really like the other girl now? Our problem was that I wouldnt give him enough space and I kept pushing him to make a huge commitment to us when he wasnt ready. And when I finally stopped pushing, he came running back. And now we’re still together 3 years later.

But whatever the reason was why u broke up, DONT push him to get back with u. Give him space, talk to him like he’s ur good friend. Flirt a little but DONT act upset or cry or beg. I cant say this is going to work because everyone is different and he may really be over u and want to move on, but just give it a try. Think about it, would u want a guy who crys and begs for u back? Ummmm no. It would prob even freak u out and make u think he could do something crazy. But I KNOW u would prob want a guy who is more confident and looks like he’s really happy even when ur not in the picture. People want things that arent so easily obtained… good luck!

How can you get your ex back if it’s even possible? What are the best things to do?

The fist thing you need to do is give your partner space. All you probably want to do is pick up the phone and call your ex. Or you might be tempted to text. Doing either thing is a perfectly good way to make thigs worse for yourself.
Many times your partner will begin to realize how much you actually meant to them after they had some time to think about what they are missing.

Allow yourself to recover emotionally. If you want to learn how to get her back you need to take the time to become emotionally controlled and calmed down. Women dislike me who are desperate, clingy or needy, so pull your life together and get over those feelings long before you consider trying to draw her back in to your life.

Behave as if nothing is bothering you. In other words if you want to learn how to get her back, you need to play it cool. She is not going to want to take you back if you are feeling and behaving depressed. You need to make sure that you are behaving as if you are having a good time, overcoming the break up depression to let her know that everything is okay.

Alright.. Well my ex boyfriend and I dated last fall and before we started dating we were really really good friends, we would hang after school and we would always be talking or texting. We decided to become more than friends and the relationship was great. Sense we were best friends before it was like dating your absolute best friend.. Well a couple of months went by and I just started losing feelings for him. I knew that with the feelings I was having, I wouldn’t start to like him again because this exact same thing happened with my other ex. I know it sounds very immature and that I’m not ready for a relationship, but there were things that made me lead to my decision to break up with him. Anyways, I broke up with him a couple days later and he was devastated. He told me he can’t be friends with me anymore and I totally understood why. About a month went by and we gradually started talking more and more each day. He started liking one of my friends and things were back to normal between us, he’d come to me for advice and it was like we had never even dated. Well a couple more months went by and started getting mean to me. We had the type of friendship where we could just yell at eachother and be mean to eachother jokingly and we would just laugh about it. And I guess he was doing it that day, but I got super mad at him and just shut him out. I didn’t talk to him for a couple weeks, and then he got a new girlfriend. At first I didn’t really care. We had grown apart and didn’t talk much, and it was fine with me. Then when summer came and I hadn’t seen him in a while, all my feelings rushed back. He had a girlfriend so I knew what I was getting myself into but I couldn’t help it.. A couple more weeks went by and I was totally over him, and we both got invited to the same party. We were both there and we both got rides with the same people. It wasn’t that bad, we just didn’t talk much but I had other people to talk to. So, a couple weeks passed and I was out with my friends and he was driving around my neighborhood with some friends and they stopped and talked to me, and all my feelings came back again. I try my hardest to ignore them, but I can’t. I have kept my options open for other guys but I always compare them to him. I just don’t know what to do anymore, and all my friends have gotten sick of me talking about it.. What can I do to get him off my mind? Please don’t tell me to get a hobby. Haha.

Stop playing this boy and let him be. You want him, then you don’t, then you do, then you don’t. Chances are if you get back with him, you’re just going to lose your "feelings" for him again. Sounds to me like you’re too immature to be in a relationship right now. Stop talking to him until you can control your feelings for him.

Me and my boyfriend broke up two weeks ago because he says he ‘cannot’ be with me, however I know this is not true, I know he could be, I don’t know what kind of game he is playing, but I want him back, and I know he wants me too, he’s just being stubborn, I think he realises that because he knows I’m always gonna be there, he has no problem with not being with me,cause we’re still talking as normal and stuff, so how do I get him back? What are some ways I can make him come running back? We’ve still been meeting up as ‘friends’ but its hard for me as I just want to be with him, he tells me he loves me still but he just cant do us right now.He also said behind my back that he’s still crazy over me and he’d pick me over anyone. I don’t understand…
I’d move on, if thats what I knew was what we both wanted, why would I move on when we had a great relationship at most times?
Maybe I know nothing about men in general, but after being with someone for 4 years, I know him, and how he works. And no, I am not having sex with him.

If you want him back, leave it up to him. Sounds like to me you should find someone else though.

What is the best choice of action to get my ex back after our 2nd break up?

Also shes in a rebound relationship and she started seeing him 5 days after we broke up and we haven’t talked for 7 days so far
Also it was a long distance relationship

I suggest you move on…

My ex let his girlfriend rip on me and tear me down and didn’t do anything about it. I want to get him back and show him im fine, nothing big and no revenge, but how can I show him im fine without him?

Go on a "date" with one of your closer guy friends, make him jealous. He will think about the awesome times you two had together and will most likely attempt to make everything better.

I haven’t seen my ex for quite a few weeks, and miss him a lot. Our relationship kind of fizzled out over a period of time, so we didn’t actually break up. I’d like to get back in contact with him, but don’t want to come across as a stalker, Any suggestions?

Hi. This is how you can get your ex back. Maybe it helps you:

1 – You need to be strong.
In order to rekindle the relationship, you need to show your ex that you are strong and leading your own life well.

2 – You must minimize the amount of contact with your ex. It might seem counter-intuitive but it is actually quite important.

3 – Be flexible to attract ex back. You need to learn how to be a listener. In this way, you will build up new channels of communication and find out about your ex’s dissatisfaction.

4 – Develop other forms of entertainment in your life. Remember to take part in activities with your family and friends.

5 – Lastly, be yourself. Remember when your ex was attracted to you and you will attract your ex again.

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Hope it helps you to get your ex back :)

I need help, I’m seeking for tips to get my ex back which we have already stop contact for almost a year.

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Caleb

He dumped me because this girl got jealous of us and she started making up stuff to him saying I have sex with guys every week and I dont and also she said she was dating him but I asked his friends and they said he was only dating me so I was wondering how to get him back?

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