Relationship Makeup » get my ex back http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog The Ultimate Guide To Getting Back Together Thu, 02 Feb 2012 06:30:11 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 Is it possible to get my ex back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-my-ex-back-2 http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-my-ex-back-2#comments Thu, 02 Feb 2012 06:30:11 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-my-ex-back-2 Hey guys look my ex is a Jehovah witness and is disfellowshipped yet we still continued to love each other when i was studying to be one too. One day we had unprotected sex, and I thought she was pregnant, but later on she proved to be okay. My mother found out, and snitched to her mom and this caused an explosion, and as you can guess she really looked at herself, and decided its time to get back in my church which meant cutting all communication with me. I loved this girl so much, and it was so difficult to let her go, because we been doing things incorrectly so long. So that caused me to pester her with love emails when i wasn’t supposed to have communication with her. Eventually this caused her to get annoyed, and angry, and flat out told me to back off. I did just that. After 5 days or so I couldn’t help it, but my college was approaching finals so i wished her luck on her test. Then she tells me their is this girl texting her asking if she can get with me. This was clearly my ex trying to play me, but idk if this was a test or just to mess with me. To make the long story short I got back home from work and she tells me this girl tells that this anonymous woman told her that me and her touch each other and flirt with this women, and you even think we going to get back together you got another thing coming. So this was a big lie, and I approached her mom to help me in my time of need and help maybe prove to her daughter that this is a lie, or see how much of a lair her daughter is. But she blew up threatening to put a restraining order on me, and how she glad her daughter isn’t with me anymore yelling at me in front of her customers. Since then i began to work on my relationship with god, and make myself a stronger christian. I really turned around, and want to get baptized maybe a year or 2 from now. But not a day goes by when I don’t pray for my ex, for I loved her with all my heart, and believe so did she. I was working really hard for a promise ring for her, she wanted to marry me, and we talked about what are kids names are going to be. We were heavily in love with each other, I cooked for her, bought her gifts out of nowhere just to show how much I loved her, and I treated her like a princess. I want give it a lot of time, but I’m sure she thinks of me from time to time. I ask what is the chances that someday we might get back together?

I would say the chances are slim

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-my-ex-back-2/feed 3 How To Get My Ex Back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-to-get-my-ex-back-17 http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-to-get-my-ex-back-17#comments Sat, 28 Jan 2012 04:59:18 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-to-get-my-ex-back-17 Hey Guys, so I know I’ve already told people that I really truly love my ex and when I first met him I instantly fell for him. I made a lot of mistakes when we broke up by calling, texting, begging, apologizing, asking what went wrong, and I could never say the right thing even when we weren’t arguing (we work together) ..I think I acted like this because three weeks after we broke up I miscarried and it got worse and I was scared and I did tell him and he didnt say much and I was still so determined to fix everything but really I seemed crazy. Im not, it’s just sometimes hard for someone to see how much they love you and often the other person mistakes it for crazy and rightfully so I understand. I really want to get back together with my ex and I was hoping if you guys had any positive ideas or suggestions/stories on how to do so? I don’t need any negative feedback because I really want to work this out and I don’t want to move on with someone who I feel is my true love and someone I really care for and I knew he felt the same at one point. Im 19 btw and I knw thats young but whatever lol and we broke up because I picked too many arguments and we "grew apart". Thanks guys, I really appreciate your help! :)

Get Your Lover Back Tips – Advice On How Get Your Ex Back
Wow, going through a breakup sucks, and it’s so hard to know what to do. You know that if you do the wrong thing, or don’t do anything at all, it will be pretty much impossible to get back with your ex. But what should you do? What are the right steps to take? Here are some proven get your lover back tips advice how get your ex back that have worked for thousands. Some you may have heard of, some not. But if you’re willing to pay attention and follow these steps you’ll have an above average chance of having your ex back with you.

As I said, this method has worked for many, many people and it can work for you too. That doesn’t mean it will happen overnight or that it will be easy. If you want success you have to be willing to make some changes in the person that you are. Don’t worry, these changes will actually make you a better human being which will benefit you in all aspects of your life, not just with your ex. Some of these steps may seem odd or unnecessary, but they’re not so don’t skip any.

OK, here are the steps you need to follow starting right now:

1. Don’t contact your ex in any way. They have to have time to miss you and face life without you in it. If you keep contacting them there will be no fear that they’ve lost you. Without that fear they can take their own sweet time figuring out what is best for them. You really don’t want to be their ‘plan b’. Give them space.

2. What did you do wrong? I’m not saying that the relationship falling apart was all your fault, but you probably had something to do with the problems. What mistakes did you make? What maturity issues do you need to work on? Whatever it was, pick the top 2 or 3 personality traits that you want to concentrate on and then make some serious changes in the way you act and the way you treat other people. This has to be something you are totally committed to or it won’t work. This will also take time so don’t expect a quick fix and don’t talk to your ex during this stage. Don’t worry, more than likely they’ll get wind of this through some of your mutual friends.

3. Get yourself in shape physically. Whether or not you are in good shape or not, it’s likely that things have gone downhill somewhat during your breakup. Now is the time to get back to where you used to be, or where you should be. Join a gym and commit to working out several times a week. This will help you get back in shape, minimize the negative effects of stress, and look really hot when it is time to see your ex!

4. Spend a lot of time having fun. I know that at a time like this, this advice may sound ridiculous, but if you try to get out of your house and spend time doing things you enjoy doing, you may actually be able to forget about your pain for a little while at least. Just don’t go out with someone on a date. That is the best way to make sure your ex never gets back with you. Hang out with friends and family only.

5. Contact your ex. Let them know you’ve missed them since you’ve been apart, but keep things light, don’t come on too strong. Ask them if they’d like to go out for lunch or coffee, again, keep it casual, and catch up with each other. If they say yes, this is your time to shine. Let them see all the great, positive changes you’ve made in your physical appearance as well as your personality. If you take things easy and just be yourself, you may be surprised to find them asking you to take them back!

Follow these get your lover back tips advice how get your ex back, they’ve worked for lots of people and if you follow them, they can help you too.

Good luck
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]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-to-get-my-ex-back-17/feed 3 I need helping getting my ex girlfriend back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/i-need-helping-getting-my-ex-girlfriend-back http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/i-need-helping-getting-my-ex-girlfriend-back#comments Mon, 23 Jan 2012 07:27:24 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/i-need-helping-getting-my-ex-girlfriend-back How can i get my ex back? I love her too much too loose her. We were dating for 2 years and the break up was both of our faults. Does anyone know how i can get her back?

Jamie here is a great website with sound advice and no ads
When you initially break up with someone you can feel a lot of different emotions but you don’t usually wonder how to win ex back until some time has passed. When you realize that the person who shared your life was the one you wanted. You may have broken up because you felt you were missing out on something.

We can all suffer from something known as the grass being greener. This is where we think other people have a better lifestyle and we are missing out. We can take the people we love for granted and decide for whatever reason that there is someone better out there who will make a more perfect partner.

But the single life is not that attractive and after a while we start to wonder how to win ex back. Thankfully it is not that difficult once you know what you are doing and don’t make any stupid mistakes. Too often we think that just because we are missing our ex partners, they are missing us too. We decide that a bunch of flowers and a nice meal is all that is needed to sort it out. But this is real life and not the movies and it will often take a lot more than this to end up back together.

Love is such a powerful emotion. It can cause huge happiness but it can also cause a lot of sadness. When someone trusts you with their love, they expect to be treated with respect. They do not expect you to betray them or hurt them. Even if you have not had an affair, the very fact you broke up will have hurt the other person. It will have dented their confidence and their belief in themselves as well as your relationship.

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I hope it helps you.

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/i-need-helping-getting-my-ex-girlfriend-back/feed 4 How do i get my ex-girlfriend back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3 http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3#comments Sat, 21 Jan 2012 00:09:36 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3 I dated my ex for almost 2 years and we broke up because we fought to much (and maybe i was a little stubborn) but it was mostly mutual. After about a week I realized how much i missed her and that I really wanted her back but when trying to talk to her about it she kept saying that she couldnt go through it again and eventually I gave up. 4 months later (last week) she texted me randomly and started to talk to me and said she misses some of the things we used to do and we talked for a while having alot of fun and I realized I still have feelings for her. When I asked her if she wanted to go to a movie or dinner sometime she said that she doesnt feel comfortable doing that. I then asked her why and she said because she cant forget some of the things that we both said when fighting and then told me she had to go to sleep… I do still miss her and i know what i did wrong when we went out before. wondering if theres anything i can do?

Hey, whether you’re trying to get your ex back, mend a relationship or get over a broken heart, it’s important that you make the decision which actually works. I followed the advice in the articles on the website listed below my answer. Have a read of the articles and best of luck in whatever you decide to do.

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]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3/feed 3 how can i get my ex back without begging him? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-without-begging-him http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-without-begging-him#comments Sat, 17 Dec 2011 06:24:25 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-without-begging-him So we went into a break up 8 months back. All these days I was begging him to getting back together. But this is not working. What are the proven ways to get my ex boyfriend back. I dunno why I still want him.

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-without-begging-him/feed 0 How do i get my ex back? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-back-19 http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-back-19#comments Mon, 12 Dec 2011 07:16:36 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-back-19 me and my ex broke up a mnth and a half ago, but since we have sex everytime we hang out. we had an argument last week and said we couldnt have sex anymore cause shes talking to someone that we need to just be friends, but when we hang out and i try to just be friends, she starts flirting with me. last night i tried to hang out as just a friend and she started flirting and talking to me in a sexual way, so i started back. about half way through the night she said we cant be doing that anymore, but ive heard that about 8 times before and we end up going back to the same thing. she wanted me to take her to her friends house and i said why not just stay over and she goes "cause you know what will happen if i stay over". mind you her friend who shes talking to is her ex, she says she loves, cares about, and has feelings for both of us. where do i go from here to get her back for good
its just hard not to hang out with her, cause we have a genuinely good time together, and everyone sees it, everyone tells us theyve never seen such a perfect couple. she tells me shes still young (21) and just wants to get her life sorted out. that she wants to make sure there isnt a reason to not have her ex in her life before she can focus on us. which she tells me when they hang out they always end up in an argument about something and they tried things like 3 times before and never were together for more then 2 wks. and even their friendship ended twice before, but im the on she cant lose out of her life no matter what, ive tried to let her go and she wont let me, she always ends up finding me within a day. she even changed her number then messaged me on fb. and whenever we hang out she always brings up stuff weve done in our past. what do i do? stay friends but keep a safe distance?

I’ll give you some advice.

I went back to my ex. It brings back so many emotions it just tears you apart.
When you break up the second time it’s even worse then the first time because you really feel like there is no hope… especially when you loved that person with all your heart.

Moving on is the BEST thing you can do.
Being friends with my ex is hard… considering he has a new girlfriend.

You’ll find someone else.
Why chase after someone who only wants to be friends?

You’ll just have to accept it… sorry.

"Friends with benefits"… yeah, doesn’t always work out.

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-back-19/feed 9 How can i get my ex back if she has a new guy? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-if-she-has-a-new-guy http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-if-she-has-a-new-guy#comments Fri, 04 Nov 2011 04:27:19 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-if-she-has-a-new-guy
You can still get your ex back if she has a new guy in her life.

If you follow the tips and tricks from the below site, you will definitely win your ex back. I have used them and I am a happy today. You too can try and get succeed yourself in getting your ex back. This is for sure. Try. Good luck.

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]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-back-if-she-has-a-new-guy/feed 8 should I get back with my ex? (drug related)? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/should-i-get-back-with-my-ex-drug-related http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/should-i-get-back-with-my-ex-drug-related#comments Mon, 12 Sep 2011 05:24:15 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/should-i-get-back-with-my-ex-drug-related I know this is a question that only I can answer, I’m just looking for some experience stories from other people in the same situation.

My boyfriend and I were together for almost 6.5 years (we’re both 27) and he broke up with me a few months ago. Things were good with us up until the end, but what led to our break up was all on him. He was really getting stressed by work, was getting into a lot of drugs (and behaving erratically/bipolar). Over the years he’s had on and off drug problems and Ive spent a lot of time crying over our relationship and just HIM because i’ve been so worried about his health. But at the end I was exhausted, just over everything. Because of all the worrying, fighting, just being so stressed out over things I couldn’t change.

So at the end I told him that he either has to get off drugs or we have to break up….and then we broke up. It was a clean break, we didn’t call each other. Although I still love him to death, I would do anything for him.

So he called me a few weeks ago begging for me to take him back. Apparently he’s changed his entire life around. He’s been off drugs for almost this entire time and has drug tests to prove it and has gone back to school to finish his BA, quit his stressful job and got a different one.

I love all these changes, and I love him. But I’ve sort of been dating someone new who I like, but as much as I could like someone I just met a few weeks ago. But there’s no baggage with this new guy and things are calm/fun/not stressful. And it’s not really "dating" either, just hanging out, but he’s cute and I enjoy his company.

But I love my ex. If I could be guaranteed that all this BS isn’t going to happen again I would get back together with him in a second! But of course thats not possible.

Let’s recap. You broke up with bf due to hid drug use. You start relationship with new person. Ex gets off drugs, cleans up his act, finishes degree. Ex wants to get back together, but you are conflicted.
You need to take a break.
Get strong on your own and then you will know the answer.

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/should-i-get-back-with-my-ex-drug-related/feed 3 trying to get my ex back! please help!? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/trying-to-get-my-ex-back-please-help http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/trying-to-get-my-ex-back-please-help#comments Thu, 01 Sep 2011 19:21:26 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/trying-to-get-my-ex-back-please-help So my ex girlfriend just recently broke up with her new boyfriend. Things didn’t really end well between us after she dumped me but I feel like I could do better if I had another shot. She probably doesn’t like me to much or doesn’t really want me to bother her or anything but I was just wondering if anyone could give me some advice so I could ease my way back in. I wanna try and get back together with her or at least try and be friends with her because she’s really great and we have a lot in common. Just wondering how I could get back on her good side and try and re-spark (haha) a relationship maybe. Thanks a lot!

It will be hard if her heart have shut you out. Try talking to her close female friends who are willing to bring both of you together. She need to be persuaded by her close friends and not by you.

]]> http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/trying-to-get-my-ex-back-please-help/feed 4 Is it possible to get an ex back when he left me? http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-an-ex-back-when-he-left-me http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-an-ex-back-when-he-left-me#comments Mon, 29 Aug 2011 18:38:24 +0000 admin http://www.myrelationshipmakeup.com/blog/get-my-ex-back/is-it-possible-to-get-an-ex-back-when-he-left-me I am totally confused and gutted. Everything was fine and we were just texting to arrange our next meeting and then out of nowhere he just said I don’t love you and never have done. I asked him where did it come from and he just kept saying he doesn’t love me.
Somehow I don’t know if to believe it or now. I still love him so much. He was the love of my life. Do people ever come back?

Dear girl, it is possible to get an ex. back, but it might depend on how you solve this problem. Before I say anything further about this general question, I think your ex. boyfriend’s behaviour was a little strange because he wouldn’t have been willing to be your boyfriend if he had never loved you. Even if he was willing to because of other reasons, it was somewhat illogical for him to offer a break-up unless he’d been forced to have a relationship with you (which I don’t think is true). Thus, it may be necessary for you to take a try and find out the reason. The best way is probably to send him a letter without asking him anything orally because this way gives him more space. You could tell him that you are sorry for sending him this message. You wouldn’t bother him if he didn’t like you, but you only wish to know whether or not it was your fault that made him disliked you (It wasn’t likely to be your fault, but there could have been misunderstandings that you haven’t known about). Then, you can ask him that if you didn’t do anything wrong, is it possible for him to tell you why he was willing to be with you if he had never loved you? No one could’ve forced him to do that. You would give him understandings if he couldn’t answer, and you would no longer ask him anything further. However, you’d like him to tell you about any other reasons if there truly were because then you would know what else could you do to make everything better even though things might have already happened beyond redemption. At the end you can say that you love him and he is your life no matter how he feels like, but you respect his decision.
He may reply you, and then you will be able to know clearly about the reasons, even finding out a way to save this relationship. But if he didn’t, it is perhaps the best to not talk to him anymore unless he wants you to. Otherwise, he might think that you are needy or even in some ways a burden for him. In this case, you need to try having no contact with him while still being polite to him if you meet him, showing that you are worth to be respected. (In some cases, ex. came back to their love ones because they’d begun to have a feeling of loss after their former lovers no longer trying to get them back and becoming a little cooler like strangers to them. Human beings usually want things that they can’t get). How to make the situation better depends on your own intelligence.
The worst result could be that he really won’t come back anymore. I understand how painful you will be when facing this situation, it is one of the possibilities. If that really happened, try your best to think over everything with a clear mind and see if you could still do anything. If you couldn’t, you may need to let time blunt your pain. You can use more time to think about and be with your family members and friends or try exercing and going outside to enjoy the sunlight, making your days filled with other joyous things. At first it seems unbearable, but gradually you’ll have less and less feelings for him as time passes. And you might receive your true love who also loves you.
Still, I wish he didn’t mean what he said and you would be with him again. Good luck!

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