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I want to go out with my ex-girlfriend again. She wasn’t stolen but I need advice on how to get her back.
Hi Ryan…
This is funny, because my name is also Ryan… Nice to meet you. 
You didn’t provide any details… It’s going to be very hard for me to answer your question (and this will make this answer really long – please, make sure you read everything, it will help you a lot). But, there are two main reasons why relationships come to an end:
1. The first scenario has to do with something really wrong that you or your ex did (like cheating for instance). If you’ve cheated on your ex or you did something that really upset them, you need to learn how to make an effective apology, otherwise, your ex will never be able to forgive you fully (and, no, saying "I’m sorry" it’s not enough). They need to know that you really understand how bad they felt when it happened. When you do that, avoid saying things like "it was nothing". This will only demonstrate that you are not congruent with what they feel. But, if you’re serious about getting your ex back, I’m going to teach you how to make a deep apology that will save your relationship.
2. The second scenario has to do with a loss of attraction. What this means is that your ex is not that into you anymore. Does any of the following sound familiar…? "I’m not sure I want this anymore. I feel that I should meet more people and try different things before I settle down. I feel like I’m not ready yet to commit to someone. It’s not you… it’s me…" It’s funny to hear variations of this in almost every situation. But the core reason is the same: your ex does not feel attracted to you anymore. Understand that, at the beginning of your relationship, your ex wasn’t attracted to you by chance. But as the relationship progressed, you began to lose some, most or all of the attractive traits. If you want your ex back, you need to learn about this gender-specific traits that can make you attractive and really become an attractive person again.
There is so much to be said about this… but let me tell you a little story (I bet you’ve been there too):
I’m an ok looking and nice guy, but, when I was in high school, I just couldn’t understand how the biggest jerks in my classroom were ending up with the most beautiful girls all the time… Were they better looking than me? Not really… at least, not all of them… Did they behave nicer than I did? Of, course not! They were treating the girls like crap, busting their balls all the time! They were making fun of them and the jokes were really nasty almost all the time! But still, somehow, they were getting attention from all the girls! What the hell was happening there?!…
…Am I saying that you have to become a jerk to get your ex girlfriend back? Hell no! You can still be yourself (probably a very nice person) and attract women (and your ex girlfriend too) like crazy. Actually, you can do way better than a jerk, because you can be nice and adapable and they simply can’t…
What I do say is that you can learn something from these high scool experiences with jerks…
#1. Leadership
#2. Self-Assurance
#3. Decisiveness
#4. Self-Control
These are the traits that attract women like crazy, and jerks are sometimes displaying them by mistake, with their arrogance and nasty jokes.
These are but a few of the main traits you absolutely *must* have in order to maintain a healthy "male/female polarity".
Now, don’t you think that you can do way better by simply learning how to be a man?
In many cases, women will tolerate a lot of crap from their partners without ever thinking of leaving the relationship… as long as they feel one primary emotion… and that’s called ATTRACTION.
Men usually tend to lose their masculine traits and their personality by letting their girlfriends lead the relationship… This way, they let the "male/female polarity" shift… and here’s what usually happens:
1. You tend to do only what she wants you to do, even if that’s not exactly what you want.
2. You change your preferences because she likes a certain music style, food, clothing, hairstyle etc…
3. You don’t always have plan in mind (i.e. when she asks you where you want to go out, you’re out of ideas and you let her chose… again).
Seems difficult? Well, women love a "man with a plan" and if you’re not willing to become one, you’ll face this issue over and over again.
You need to become that mysterious guy you used to be when you two first met. Become a challenge! Tell her you want to go out with her in a very unusual place… a place you’ve never been before with her…
But, first step you need to make is to give her some space… Give her the chance to miss you a little bit… to realize your value. Human beings only realize the true value of something when it’s gone… Give her a taste of your real value…
There are many ways to make her feel attracted to you again but, unfortunately, I can’t make this any longer. But, for now, if nothing else, at least do this!
If you’ve found this interesting, you can read more here:
http://www.quicklygetherback.com
I encourage you to do this because a lot of guys are able to get back with their girls in no time, every day, because of this information they get.
Good luck,
Ryan
i love her still and i know she loves me too but we are both scared to confess our feelsings…what can i do to make her forgive me and to go back out with me with out making it look like im begging her..
Hey
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:
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Hope it helps.
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Ok so i need a song that i can get my ex girlfriend back, i need a song that will say that i need a second chance or something like that. Thanks.
Since I’m a girl I suggest Beautiful by Akon or Lonely by Akon or Sorry,Blame It on Me by Akon or With You by Chris Brown you know something nice and sweet.
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What can happen to my Ex Girlfriend if she didn’t tell me she got pregnant by me and kept the baby behind my back? Is there anything i would be able to do?
nothing
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So how DO you get your ex girlfriend back?
Well the first thing that you dont do is something stupid. You dont go out on the town with your mates. Theyll lend a sympathetic ear and show you a good time, but youll all end up half cut and theyll try to help by introducing you to a lovely lady in the bar and you know whatll happen next, dont you?
Thats right guilt, just to add to all your other problems. Let alone the hassle of trying to get out of bed, get dressed and get out of the house without waking her! That, my friend, is an art that takes a long time in the making. Look at you, youre a wreck. Youve no idea what to do next. Not a clue. You cant concentrate on anything, you dont even care about anything and to be perfectly honest, you are boring everyone to tears. Sure, everyone feels sorry for you, but you have to do something constructive.
Making constant phone calls and sending hundreds of text messages is NOT constructive. Nor are hip expanding boxes of chocolates. Tasty, no doubt, but in these circumstances, less than useless. What youve got to do, and I know that this will be difficult, is to harness what little you have left of your brain power if you ever want to find out how to get your ex girlfriend back. Not only getting her back, but getting her begging to come back. And she will. But only if you play your cards right.
Although you may well feel the need to call her ten times per day, this is only going to make her see you as needy. It’s going to turn her off, even if she feels sorry enough for you to carry on taking those calls.
Make sure that you cut off all communication until you know what plan of action you are going to use. Think things through, are you acting out of pride or real, true desire to be back with your ex girlfriend? Knowing what you truly want is the first step you should be taking. Take the time out to really sit down and think about what you want. If pride is driving you, then you really shouldn’t be treating her as your possession.
Heres what you DO have to do. You have to stop running around like a headless chook chasing its own tail. {Yes, I know its a mixed metaphor, but whos writing this article?}
Remember, Im the one whos trying to show you how to get your ex girlfriend back.
You have to make a cup of coffee, not a beer, a cup of coffee, get some paper and a pen, sit quietly, no TV, and work out a few things.
You have, firstly, to work out why she left in the first place. Make a list of things that you did that she was always mentioning. They might not seem important things to you, but women are funny creatures. Always remember, Women and cats will do as they please. Men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.
Did she always comment about your smoking in the house? Maybe she didnt nag about it, but it was obviously on her mind. OK, stop smoking in the house, better still, give up smoking altogether. This will impress her no end.
The most heinous crime that any man can commit, in the eyes of a woman, is to leave the toilet seat up. Truly and without a doubt, this has been the cause of countless relationship break-ups.
Practice lowering the toilet seat. Its quite easy once you get the hang of it. Grab the top of the toilet seat with your right hand and gently lower it. Dont drop it or it will make a very loud crash and frighten the cat. There, that was not too difficult, was it? Now, about going to bed with your boots on
Your list may be short or it may be long, but what you have to do is change these bad habits BEFORE you try to win her back.
Its no use at all ringing her up and saying Ill change. You have to change first, THEN ring her up, casually, and have a chat, mention in passing that youve stopped smoking etc. How youre going to bring the toilet seat into a casual conversation is your problem, not mine.
Dont be in too much of a hurry to make contact. I know its hard, but two can play the hard-to-get card. If you wait for a few weeks and master the toilet seat thing, when you do call her, the call will be greeted, not with annoyance, but with relief on her part. After all, she may have given you the elbow, but shell still be wondering how youre going.
Now youre starting to get the upper hand. But you still need help. Big time help.
You do deserve to be a winner, dont you?
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my ex girlfriend threw a bucket of paint over my car (my pride n joy)
im looking for a creative and funny way to get her back lol
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My ex girlfriend broke up with me about a week ago. During the week we both mutually decided to meet up tomorrow and talk about what went wrong in the relationship and what actually caused the breakup. I really want her back. I still love her and care about her and don’t want to mess things up in our first meeting. Should I tell her tomorrow that I want her back and want to work things out, or should I give her more time?
Don’t read too much into it. Just because she is willing to meet with you does not mean that she is willing to get back together. First, try things from a different approach. Instead of telling her that you want her back, ask her what went wrong and what can be done to correct things. Women are different than guys. Being flexible (asking how to correct a problem) will be more receptive than being forceful (telling her what you want). It will also show that you are willing to be a partner in a relationship instead of wanting things to be the way you want them to be.
Relationships are hard work and require compromise on the part of everyone involved in the relationship. It doesn’t matter if it is a girlfriend, friend from school, or a family member.
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Get Girlfriend Back – Who Else Wants the Secret to Getting Your Girlfriend Back
To get girlfriend back after a break up is going to require not only effort but a way of showing them how much you love them as well. Although your break up at the time may seem something tragic, there is nothing more reassuring than the thought of trying to repair what the problem is with them and so win them back.
In this article we offer five steps which you may find useful in order to help you win back your girlfriend.
Step 1 – It is important that after you have initially broken up with your girlfriend give her not only space but time as well. Don’t automatically start contacting her after the breakup, but rather give a month or so and then get in contact with her once more.
Step 2 – Because you were together you are going to be the one who knows more about what she likes and dislikes than anyone else and certainly gives you an advantage over others who know her. Arrange to meet her in locations that she feels comfortable with and try to avoid having yours or her friends with you when you do. If she is unwilling to meet with you then start off by talking to her on the phone, but don’t just turn up unexpectedly in places where she is going to be.
Step 3 – It is important that when you do get together on when talking on the phone you don’t talk up about the break up or the problems that your relationship was having. Rather talk about those things that were positive in it.
When discussing what is going on in your life now including dating, please be as honest and open as you possibly can with her. This is a way of showing her that you are secure with being able to open up to her about who you are and the way you feel and this will show your ex just how special she is to you.
Step 4 – What you should never do is tell her how much you miss her or start begging her to come back to you. It is important that you retain your composure at all times. Unfortunately women dislike men who are weak and certainly it isn’t the ideal footing to recommence a relationship on.
At this stage is when you should be apologizing for any hurt that you have caused her during the time you were together. The more you are willing to admit your faults to her rather than to blame her is the time to show that you are willing to make changes that may well help to bring your relationship back to something that you can both enjoy.
Step 5 – If at any time you do invite your ex back to your home then don’t use it as a reason to get her in to your bed. Okay the sex between you may be great, but there is more to a relationship than this. Rather instead why not cook her, her favorite meal and spend time talking and listening.
When it comes to you trying to get girlfriend back you need to be willing to make changes and sacrifices in your life. If you aren’t willing to make concessions to her then solving your relationship problems just isn’t going to happen.
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