Archive for February, 2012
Basically i’m 16 and me and my boyfriend were together for 4 years straight, but on Valentines day (yeah, it’s not the day to do it) he broke up with me because he said that he felt trapped as we argued quite a bit, and he felt depressed for 3 weeks because of it and it wasn’t fair. We know it was because we spent too much time together and got fed up of each other, and of course i am prepared to put it right. I know, i felt really bad, but honestly what we had was the best, he even told me that i was the best thing that happened to him and we had great memories. Basically, i found out i was pregnant 2 days after, and i had to tell him, even though he said he wanted space, and i was smothering him bad, i felt that i over reacted, because i had just lost a person i loved for 4 years. I’ve calmed down now, and after lots of bickering, we decided to abort it because we were too young and we both couldn’t support a child and we are not ready or mature enough. He then told me how he wanted to move on and be friends, but he would support me throughout the abortion. However, i needed to know quickly what he wanted to do, because i was in such a state, i couldn’t eat or sleep in my own bed. Now i realise i jumped all this on him too quickly, and we have both said sorry and now we are friends. He said that he couldn’t make the decision in a few days because it was too soon, he told me he would need time to think about us, because it was a long time that we were together, and i feel silly that we threw away our relationship because of that. I know we said we would be friends, but i really want a second chance:(. Should i be friends with him and try and get close to him again? Or should i not talk to him no longer to make him feel like he misses me? Please don’t post immature comments about this, i want to be mature, and i believe in myself that this is going to work, although i just dont know how to go about getting him back, so we can turn over a new leaf. If you have done it before, tell me your experience? Or i need advice on how to go about it. Please dont tell me to move on, because i believe it will work. Thanks:).
Don’t talk to him for about a week or two so he might then realize what u’re worth. then talk to him once a while and when u talk, make sure u ask about him n tell him about urself aswell. when he tries to call u back or shows sgins or interest, good luck then! but don’t answer him just yet. show him that u r busy. Talk to him for about 5 minutes but in those 5 minutes, u r to talk as much as possible (just an example)
give me some of your best tips for getting your ex back whethter it has to do with how you look or how you act.
If they broke up with you, leave it, it’s over.
If you broke up with them, leave it, you messed up.
Hey guys look my ex is a Jehovah witness and is disfellowshipped yet we still continued to love each other when i was studying to be one too. One day we had unprotected sex, and I thought she was pregnant, but later on she proved to be okay. My mother found out, and snitched to her mom and this caused an explosion, and as you can guess she really looked at herself, and decided its time to get back in my church which meant cutting all communication with me. I loved this girl so much, and it was so difficult to let her go, because we been doing things incorrectly so long. So that caused me to pester her with love emails when i wasn’t supposed to have communication with her. Eventually this caused her to get annoyed, and angry, and flat out told me to back off. I did just that. After 5 days or so I couldn’t help it, but my college was approaching finals so i wished her luck on her test. Then she tells me their is this girl texting her asking if she can get with me. This was clearly my ex trying to play me, but idk if this was a test or just to mess with me. To make the long story short I got back home from work and she tells me this girl tells that this anonymous woman told her that me and her touch each other and flirt with this women, and you even think we going to get back together you got another thing coming. So this was a big lie, and I approached her mom to help me in my time of need and help maybe prove to her daughter that this is a lie, or see how much of a lair her daughter is. But she blew up threatening to put a restraining order on me, and how she glad her daughter isn’t with me anymore yelling at me in front of her customers. Since then i began to work on my relationship with god, and make myself a stronger christian. I really turned around, and want to get baptized maybe a year or 2 from now. But not a day goes by when I don’t pray for my ex, for I loved her with all my heart, and believe so did she. I was working really hard for a promise ring for her, she wanted to marry me, and we talked about what are kids names are going to be. We were heavily in love with each other, I cooked for her, bought her gifts out of nowhere just to show how much I loved her, and I treated her like a princess. I want give it a lot of time, but I’m sure she thinks of me from time to time. I ask what is the chances that someday we might get back together?
I would say the chances are slim