Archive for April, 2010
We dated for 6 months. He wont reply to any of my text messages or phone calls. All he has to say is bad things about me. I need him back. Help! What should i do to win him back?
Hello
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back check these 3 recommended steps:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don’t want them..
2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Men just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously him, [spin]text message him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s very important give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and try to eat healthy foods. When you look good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
You can find other great tips on how to get your ex boyfriend back in this useful article:
http://www.squidoo.com/How-To-Get-Your-Ex-Boyfriend-Back-Fast
I’m trying to get back with my ex girlfriend and whenever I talk to her, things seem to go alright and we end on a good note. It seems like she becomes more bitter towards me when we don’t talk for more then 12 hours. I broke up with her in october and I want to get her back, but I know her friends are trying to protect and they don’t want me to hurt her again. To say the least, they don’t like me… I need help finding a way to get her to A: stop listening to them ::or:: B: get them to shut up. After a bit of convincing, I got her to agree to see a movie with me on wednesday. We’re only going as friends but I’m hoping that the date will go well enough that she’ll agree to see me again (the sooner the better) I know these things take time, I want to keep seeing her and slowly rebuild the relationship into something more serious. But I can’t do anything if every time I get back on good terms with her, she talks to one of her friends who don’t like me and tells her 100 reasons why we shouldn’t be together.
Well hello dan. Tell her friends that if they don’t back off, Brian is gonna have to deal with them. If that doesn’t work, listen to the guy above me.
Ok, My boyfriend raped me while we were going out. It’s taken me 3 months of denile to realise that he did that to me. And you know what? its made me feel so bad about myself. i just want to know how i can get myself back. And let go of what he’s done to me. I just need to refocus, and be myself again.
Many thanks 
I think you’re well on your way to getting yourself back – you’ve admitted it to yourself, you acknowledge that it’s made you feel bad about yourself and that you need to (and can) get past it. You have hope that you will be yourself again, and so if you stay strong and keep hold of this then you’ll get there.
I love her and I want to be with her. We broke up for unknown reasons and I really want her. I need advice on how to get her back in my life.
How can you break up for "unknown reasons" ?
If she broke up with you and wouldn’t give a reason, then that’s where you have to start.
Find out what the reason was, and what could have been done to prevent it.
Are there things about you that need to be changed? Find out.
Good luck
We broke up because his parents didnt like me, and we fought alot about trusting each other. We were in love and were planning on getting married and he hasnt talked to me since we broke up and thats been 2 months ago. Everytime i text or email him he ignores them. He pretending to date someone and idk why. Someone help me understand why hes ignoring me and pretending to date someone! And help me get him back!
Omfg, you’re a loser. Get over him. If he loved you that much, he wouldn’t have cared about his parents. Obviously he’s a little sissy.
Me and my ex have been talking and agreed we want to be together in the future and dont want to be with other people. We just need to start over completley. Is there any way to speed up the process?
I honestly don’t think it’s possible to start over completely because you’ll always remember. But if you really want to get out of the habits you guys had, I would not date for a couple months so you guys can somewhat forget what your old relationship was like, then start over.
He’s not the kind of guy to come back because he’s jealous. If he gets too jealous he’ll give up. He also isn’t much of the guy to make the first move or initiate anything.
So how much space and how much time do i give him? What do i do after that?
You definitely cant make him jealous if he will just give up. If you want to stir him a little to get him to start making more effort to chase you I will tell you what I did. This may seem odd but when my wife left me I was devastated. My better half was gone. I went to psychics and then I tried casting several love spells. Nothing was working and I was growing into a deeper depression by the day. Then I read about a witch in the paper who helped some guy win the lottery. I immediately contacted her and she did a return lover spell for me. It actually worked and my wife came back shortly after that. My world was restored and we are back together and happy. If you really want this guy back then I would recommend going to the same witch that I did. I used http://www.witchcraft-magic-spells.com
he broke up with me saying he felt like it wasnt working out because we didnt see enough of each other, how do i change that and make him remember why we dated. also, when we meet up to talk next time, what are tips to make him want me back.. and to tease him to kiss me and stuff
If he’s made it clear that it’s over, it’s over. It takes 2 people who WANT to be in a relationship to make it work. Move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
I messed up and cheated on my boyfriend just one time. He was my first and I want to marry him. I think I just wanted to know what it was like to be with another man but I regret it.
My boyfriend won’t answer my calls or text messages! It has been about 2 weeks and I want to make this right.
This is actually a very complicated problem. You may be able to get him back, but from my experience, your behavior during this delicate time is crucial.
You need to STOP texting him and calling him constantly. Give him his space to breathe and give him a chance to miss you. AGREE with the breakup for now.
These two simple things will help get you started. There is actually a really good book on this exact subject. I don’t usually believe in a lot of stuff you see online, but I received the advice from above from this book: http://www.LoveRestore.com/ex
Good luck.
My ex was secretive about things she did that she knew i wouldnt like, but this pales in comparison to everything great about her. However, we had a fight about this, and we broke up because even though she still loves me, she cant get past thinking i dont trust her and that ruins it for her. Is there anything i can do besides waiting for her to maybe change her mind?
I think there’s a reason she is secretive. If she trusts you and you trust her, what is the problem? Do you have any reason to not trust her? I don’t understand why she is so secretive unless she has something she wants to hide. If there is a reason you don’t trust her and there is a reason she is secretive, it may be best to accept the break up.
If there is a way to get beyond all of this (and it sounds like there is) you need to work an angle whereby she comes back to you. You can accomplish this by acknowledging that the break-up was a great idea and possibly ignoring her for a little while. Sounds harsh, but if she wants you back, she’ll come, trust me.
Sam
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