Archive for December, 2009
It’s been a week and a half since the worst fight between my ex and I and I don’t think we’re gonna get back together.
Do guys ever just miss the ex gf but are too stubborn to be the first to call?
Unfortunately those are the relationships that last the longest.
Take a look at marriages now.
At the end of my last tenancy, my ex-landlord refused (unfairly) to return my deposit. I went to the small claims court who supported me. However The landlord died before the case was solved. Is there anything I can do to get my money back?
The case was still in the process of mediation and had not gone to court per se. I am not quite sure how to claim for the landlord estate in the UK
Claim for the landlord’s estate.
We have gone out three times, I broke up with him the last time, there is no chance of us gettin back together, or even becoming friends again.
Every single day I think about him. I want to forget. I try to meet other guys & like other guys, but all I can think about is making my ex jealous with the other guys ! It’s been six months now. I need to stop.
Help !
You’ve got to distract your mind. Take some time off of thinking about him, like have some fun with your friends, put more into working out or into your work.
OK, so I know you all are going to be like, "Be the bigger person…blah blah blah" but what she did to was messed up. I don’t have time to get into detail but I need to know. I am in Middle School. Eighth grade, actually. We go to the same school and we have some classes together. It is actually tow girls. I need to know the best way possible for me to get them BOTH back . Please help me!
Gee..you could be the mature self-confident one and not the vengeful little brat. Just a thought.
she was my absolute life. everything she ever wanted from me i gave to her. then she just up and left told me i did everything right and its her not me. how do i go about getting her back. she goes to my church so i have to see her every week.
Hey
Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:
http://www.backwithextips.com/magic-of-making-up-review
all the best
he wasnt much of anything when we were married. Never wanted to spend time even when he had the time. Never put us first nothing. When i filed for the divorce days later he was trying to come back. what did you do when your ex spouse tried to reconcile with you?
So far this month he has given me…. a vacuum cleaner, two televisions, transported the kids when he never would have, and bought me a Christmas gift.
He may be up to something but I am not interested. Like my Granny used to say, "You never miss your water til your well runs dry". For most men I have dated or liked and the feeling was not returned, I am the best damned woman they will never have…all they have to do for the truth in that statement is ask my ex. It’s too late.
she took a break from me a month ago. she told me she slept with someone else. but that meant nothing to her and she is sorry. would you guys take her back?
a relationship for 1yr and 5 months.
During a break or not during a break…there is a reason she slept with someone else. You need to find out why. Before you continue to put your heart on the line, find out what the problem is. You may take her back and there might be a repetition in the future. It may have meant nothing to her, but did she think of how this would affect you? Is this how she will act in the future? If you truly love her and she truly loves you, it may be worth a second chance. But can you forgive her and live with this? Or is it going to affect you negatively in the future?
How do u get ur ex back in a difficult time 4 u????
My girlfriend broke up wit me 6 weeks ago cus of something i said in bad temper. I was stressed at finding out my mum mite have cancer again and i was very sick myself. She said she only broke up wit cus wat i said meant i didn’t trust her. we were really in love and she said that when we broke up up she wud still always love me but when i pressured her she said she didn’t love me. I have found out that i mite have cancer at 19 years of age and im nervously waiting on test results, i love her and need her support. how do i go about getting her bak cus i really need her now
I really love this girl and i really want 2 b with her,i always trusted her.
if you truly love her you’ll forget about yourself for a bit, and do all that you can to show her that you care, if she likes flowers, get her some, if she likes candy, get her some, do what makes her happy, and don’t let your temper ruin it for you again, be honest with her and show her you love her.
My ex and I have been off and on for a few years. She first couldn’t let go of her ex. We started something before she had moved on. We finally got past that and then were together some time before we talked about getting engaged. Well, I didn’t get her a ring and she moved out to prove a point. I didn’t chase her, and a few months went by and she met someone else. She has been with him off and on for the last 6 months. Over the last 2 months we have been back together off and on for short spurts then she goes back to him. Well, this time I finally got her a ring and asked if that is what she wanted. She said yes. I knew she wasn’t over her last bf but was willing to work. He calls her all the time and she has his numbers stored on her cell phone. I even hear his voice on her voicemail message. I approached her about that and she still hasn’t changed it. Today we talked and she said that he doesn’t even know she has a ring. Not sure why that matters. So, I am at a loss knowing that everytime we try to get together it is some reason or another that we can’t make it work. She talks about the future with me but we can’t seem to make it last. I don’t understand what her problem is. What do I do with her?
Kick her to the curb, she is just using you and you need to find someone who can appreciate you without whoring herself out to other guys.
How do I take the woman my ex-husband lives with to Court to claim back my personal possessions in her home? She refuses to return them to me.
When you were divorced, it should have been specific in the papers somewhere which posessions were yours and which were his. This is something that the court says you have to agree on before awarding the divorce…do you remember? Did you leave those things? If yes, then they are no longer yours. Not sure what happens if you forgot about the stuff and didn’t record it is the divorce decree.